Sunday, September 16, 2007

An empty realization

Does it ever happen, that in a relationship, you reach a point where you don't remember any of the reasons for being with someone? But you feel you just have to, coz it's the decision you've made? What do you do when you're the last priority for the person you love most? What happens when the reality you chose to ignore, comes and hits you in the face? And you're left alone, to pick up the shattered pieces of your heart?

13 comments:

Naresh said...

Hey! I would say such a situation is like chasing a mirage, and it is no point doing it. If the person we give the highest priority to isnt givin us any priority, I dont see any point in carrying on. Its harsh, but its truth!

Ashu said...

If you are at this stage, then may be this relationship you are in, needs a revisit and a deep introspection what next ?

desperado said...

you remember the better times and have faith in the person and the relationship you nurtured with your love

I know its all too easy to say from the outside but there is hope and a better tommorrow

TripleSix said...
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TripleSix said...

i dn't know either,but one thing is there that i'm pretty certain about,is that the feelin is of disgust,just bcos u can't find the solution anywhere...

sometimes,i would wish the outcome of this problem would appear with just a knock on the door...but,tht dsn't happen...the poem tht is still on my blog is closely linked to this problematic love, and honestly speaking,it hasn't yet resolved...funny,right?

annie said...

Mirage now you brought me into tears with this one..am still looking for those answers jus like you are.Life sucks atimes nah?

Anonymous said...

Life can b such a quagmire at times. Finding solutions is so damn difficult t times. It might sound 'easy talking, tough doing' or that ppl apart from you don't know the real meaning of wht u would be goin thro, but hope.

Rohit Talwar said...

Holy, I don't know what to write. Don't consider myself any authority on this issue..considering I've felt the same myself. I guess its all about experiencing it, as they say. Dramatic to think, but yeah.

Stone said...

Time for dropping some emotional baggage; sometimes we carry on people not bcoz they’re most compatible but just coz’ they entered our live before anyone else!
Take care!!!

Ekalavya said...

Faced it not once but twice..! All about sacrificing stuff...

Mirage said...

@naresh: That's the most practical thing to do...but matters of the heart often ignore practicalities...

@ashu: Yes it sure does...that's what I'm trying to do

@dhruv: I really hope ur right

@nika: It is...and all we can do is laugh at the absurdity of it

@annie: *Hugs* Sure does...

@Anonymous: Hope is a strong word... it's something that leaves you hanging in the middle

@rohit: Yea well, I hope this experience is a learning

@Stone: You have no idea how right you are...

@eklavya: sacrifices are not a problem...it's the one-sided sacrifices that hurt

Gaurav Alagh said...

Nothin happens dear... just that one loves and other hates... its human nature... behind every good is bad and vice versa... so forget the past... live in present.. and look out for future.. and in between ... purposely pose that your are happy go lucky in front of him... trust me he will be JEALOUS .. and will surely be left wondering!

Mirage said...

@gaurav: Hmm...that's a gr8 suggestion, but unfortunately it won't work for me. Jealous is the last thing I wnt him to be. But thx anyway :)