tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post4621200422750402015..comments2023-10-17T14:19:03.361+05:30Comments on Illusions: Why arranged marriage is best for meMiragehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05789924298694939005noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-73418410556633693552008-01-16T12:48:00.000+05:302008-01-16T12:48:00.000+05:30Hey, Commendable writing skills.I am currently loo...Hey, <BR/><BR/>Commendable writing skills.<BR/><BR/>I am currently looking out for a Copywriter who can evolve brands. Kindly call me on the below mentioned numbers so that we can discuss the opportunity atleast.<BR/><BR/>regards<BR/>Manjurima Borah<BR/>Human Resource<BR/>Adept Media<BR/>Ph: 26515196/9873468675<BR/>e-mail: manju@adeptmedia.inmanjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01082844710538377281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-98663647137306182007-12-25T23:04:00.000+05:302007-12-25T23:04:00.000+05:30Haha - very valid points.I am so glad that I am ne...Haha - very valid points.<BR/><BR/>I am so glad that I am nearly 25 and am only now hearing all this "stuff" from my parents.<BR/><BR/>Anyway point 3, I think is why most people finally give in. <BR/><BR/>And point 4 I believe is why most arranged marriages actually continue. My logic is that if I made a decision and I messed up, I will go ahead and try and correct it but if I let someone else make the decision for me, it would be more difficult to correct because there would be so many people being let down etc.<BR/><BR/>Anyway it was a fun read. Hoping you don't get badgered too much too soon on the topic.Deepalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09825753670909209182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-67225102396281500962007-12-18T12:10:00.000+05:302007-12-18T12:10:00.000+05:30love, mararige & boys sure baffles me ...a mystery...love, mararige & boys sure baffles me ...a mystery dat i m not sure weter i wanna solve.<BR/><BR/>hey u said u want 2 noe ur man inside out , fall n love etc. but dats love marraige right?<BR/>or wer u talking abt arranged love marraiges , its more or less like dating a guy chosen by ur family 4 sumtime & den deciding weter u wanna go any further . but dats jus hw normal dating is.<BR/>& abt parents doing only thngs wch r best 4 u . dont u thnk , somtimes even v don noe wots best 4 us...den hw can u expect sum1 else , whover it b ,2 take such imp a decision 4 u & hope it wld turn out 4 de best.<BR/>i m not blaming/questioning u dear...<BR/>just voicing out ma apprehensions perhapsMISS ILLUSIONhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02686437790265670895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-62890048804358176902007-12-08T14:58:00.000+05:302007-12-08T14:58:00.000+05:30i am beginning to believe that marriage, however i...i am beginning to believe that marriage, however it happens, is about one decision we make - to make things happen, come what may. thats it. love marriage or arranged marriage, its the same.<BR/><BR/>thats said, i'd opt for no marriage. who knows whats in store. its only when we start taking so much ownership that we feel pressed for the need to make these big decisions. i leave it to Him.dharmabumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07198727554870311298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-8284549456373937162007-11-30T23:58:00.000+05:302007-11-30T23:58:00.000+05:30I have to be friends with the guy for an eternity,...<I>I have to be friends with the guy for an eternity, know him in and out, develop feelings for him (non forcibly), fall in love, think about the future and then step into a relationship</I><BR/><BR/>Asking for too much :)<BR/><BR/><I>love you for who you are and not the body you have</I><BR/>Why not both?<BR/><BR/>Even in arranged marriage, I think there should be considerable gap between "arrangement" and "marriage".[Amod]https://www.blogger.com/profile/07329805400272836124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-29581782443972533462007-11-26T16:45:00.000+05:302007-11-26T16:45:00.000+05:30boys are complicated, that's for sure. I don't thi...boys are complicated, that's for sure. I don't think life is supposed to be easy...Marenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08092023820595920026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-48181338869691207782007-11-16T12:43:00.000+05:302007-11-16T12:43:00.000+05:30LOL! The eternal debate carries on then!I was once...LOL! The eternal debate carries on then!<BR/>I was once a member of a forum where we had a thread on similar lines. Needless to say the thread ran for 100+ pages and eventually moderators had to step in and close it down :D<BR/><BR/>Marriage is a curiously interesting concept..........ahh! but maybe some other day.John Fhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10647124173656691878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-12350933858078780342007-11-15T22:35:00.000+05:302007-11-15T22:35:00.000+05:30@naresh: yea that's what i've been doin...lessee!@...@naresh: yea that's what i've been doin...lessee!<BR/><BR/>@Ashu: Wow...that sounded lk a dangerous warning! I think i'll stay away from marriage only!<BR/><BR/>@rohit: If only this was easy!<BR/><BR/>@manuscrypts & Stone: Meri life picture lag rahi hai bewakoofon! <BR/><BR/>@ceedy: oh yea i won't. I'm just a kid!! Just wish my relatives wud see that! *rolls eyes*<BR/><BR/>@Annie: Hehe thanks! I think i'm goin to become a nun at this rate! ;)<BR/><BR/>@KP: Yep. I can't afford to jump into anythin without thinking. I've learnt my lesson!Miragehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05789924298694939005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-62638256050320920662007-11-13T21:00:00.000+05:302007-11-13T21:00:00.000+05:30Arrange/Love both are gamble... i have seen both o...Arrange/Love both are gamble... i have seen both of them failing...so "grass isnt greener on anyside"..u need patience, committment...many more things for it to work... so be wise when u make decision...and think hard and long b4 committing to any situation.......KPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09923701352252200115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-8320328800287111202007-11-13T14:06:00.000+05:302007-11-13T14:06:00.000+05:30A pat on your back for thinking out loud but with ...A pat on your back for thinking out loud but with such truthfulness. Guess what I exactly feel for points 1 to 3…seems as if u just wrote down my feelings here. I am shit scared of arranged marriage but hell I have lost faith in all the guys of the world..They all da same……damn all same…Btw I loved loved this post.anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16316475192402994934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-4364949879197886882007-11-13T08:14:00.000+05:302007-11-13T08:14:00.000+05:30marriage arranged or love is a journey for which y...marriage arranged or love is a journey for which you have to be ready from mind, body or spirit....even if one of them is questioning you dont enter it just yet.ceedyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17767787593275846653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-75041475910571194462007-11-13T05:38:00.000+05:302007-11-13T05:38:00.000+05:30Manu said it!!!You're just 22, abhi to 'picture es...Manu said it!!!<BR/>You're just 22, abhi to 'picture estart huey hai' :-)Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16053118951693455094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-26325348284272482602007-11-12T14:41:00.000+05:302007-11-12T14:41:00.000+05:30as the saying goes 'abhi picture baki hain, mere d...as the saying goes 'abhi picture baki hain, mere dost'.. so i'll watch out for the updates :)manuscryptshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08610761336778547517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-73057970309356659682007-11-11T16:08:00.000+05:302007-11-11T16:08:00.000+05:30Love is an unattainable treasure, true.Arranged ma...Love is an unattainable treasure, true.<BR/><BR/>Arranged marriages mostly end up as compromises for the rest of the couples' lives - at least that's what I have seen.<BR/><BR/>It's just nice to be on one's own. I really want everyone to understand it and think of better things like music, alcohol and good things in life than love and bitch troubles (sorry there). Relationships are such a pain - and we both know we both agree!<BR/><BR/>Chill out :)Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09469564318863746009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-49675234624651550282007-11-11T01:47:00.000+05:302007-11-11T01:47:00.000+05:30stay away from arranged marriagestay away from arranged marriageAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7914755.post-6315994445047923322007-11-11T01:27:00.000+05:302007-11-11T01:27:00.000+05:30Is this a tag??? :PTht aside, wht u said holds tru...Is this a tag??? :P<BR/>Tht aside, wht u said holds true for me too! Committment, carrying it beyond, sustaining the momentum, moulding myself to evolve and mature in the relationship r all things probably beyond me... and hence I dont try much! :P<BR/>If it has to happen, probly it ll happen... The mantra is just not try hard for anything, just accept things as they happen! :DNareshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04786727705069141167noreply@blogger.com